Nothing prepared me for my brother’s murder – Ex-BBNaija housemate Khafi Kareem

 I worked on murder cases, then my little brother was shot dead’: Nigerian born Met police officer who comforted many victims’ families says nothing prepared her for the heartbreak when her OWN sibling was randomly killed.

*Khafi Kareem’s 20-year-old brother Alex was shot as he left a west London shop

Nothing seems to have prepared Khafi Kareem for the June morning tragedy. Not even her 10 year experience working on the front line for the London Metropolitan Police to combat the dozens of acts of gun and knife crime that occur on a regular basis on the streets.

Two months after,Khafi,30, born of Nigerian parentage, says “not in a million years” would she have thought that her own brother would be gunned down just like that.

She had been called on phone that day by her brother to come to the family home.

She had no idea what the summons was all about although her first instinct was that there had been an accident.

“My brother said it was about Alex, but he couldn’t tell me over the phone,” she told the London Mail.

“The worst thing I could think of was that my little brother had been injured somehow. Not for a minute did I think he was dead, and not in a million years would I ever have thought he’d been shot.”

Alex was just 20-years-old ,the last born of their parents.

He is described as a sunny-natured young man who had d never been in trouble and was due to start university.

He was shot as he left a shop near home in west London.

“Help me” were his last words as he lay dying on the pavement.

The police believe Alex’s murder was a case of mistaken identity in a society where the assumption in a case like this is that the victim was in a gang.

“People hear about the death of a black boy on the street and assume that he was in a gang, that it’s a case of live by the gun, die by the gun,’ Khafi said.

“But Alex couldn’t be further away from that life.

“After he was shot, nobody ever asked outright if he was in a gang,.

“But sometimes you could see the question mark in their eyes.

“People I knew said there must be more to it than a random act of violence, and one person asked if I was sure who my brother associated with. I told them yes, I was pretty sure. But it illustrated how, when a young black man dies, it is so easy for people to make assumptions.

“It is just a shame that you have to fight that prejudice first, before people can feel sorry about Alex or feel sad about what happened.”

Although investigation continues,the police are of the view that Alex was simply in the wrong place at the wrong time and was not the intended target of his killers.

The Mail quoted detective Chief Inspector Wayne Jolley, from Scotland Yard, as saying: ‘He was innocent. He had nothing to do with the horrid, horrible lifestyle that took him away. All lines of inquiry point to this being a tragic case of mistaken identity.

“Alexander did nothing wrong that night — he simply left a convenience store. The people who did this must be brought to justice.

“They ruthlessly shot down an innocent man in the street with no care of the consequences.

“We continue to urge anyone with information to come forward. These people do not deserve your protection — they set out to cause harm.”

Khafi who says she has seen much grief in the course of her official duties on a murder squad and “always been really passionate about looking after victims and the people who are left behind after crime” never thought “something like this would happen in my own family.”

She still finds it difficult that Alex is dead.

“It’s still very surreal to me,” she said.

“People were saying that after the funeral things get better, but seeing him go into the ground — in a way I’m feeling worse now because now I wake up every morning thinking ‘gosh, he’s really gone’. It doesn’t seem real. I think in some ways everyone is still in shock.”

Khafi and her brothers are all first-generation Londoners, brought up in Shepherd’s Bush. Their mum, a nurse, raised them largely alone after separating from her geologist husband when Khafi was 12.

Of her mum,she said: “I was thinking about my brothers not long before this happened and thinking what an amazing job my mum has done.

“We’ve all been brought up in London, and she had three sons, and we’ve all made successes of ourselves.’

Alex — named after Alexander the Great — was the youngest, and all his siblings were protective.

“All of us wanted to look after him, so that’s what made everything so much more painful because any of us would have said we’d take the bullet for him,” she said, her eyes bursting with tears.

Reminiscing about the years gone by,she said: “’I remember one winter we were walking and came across a homeless person with no shoes on, and Alex was so upset for the man he started crying in the middle of the road, saying, ‘Why doesn’t he have shoes? It’s cold outside.’ I will always remember that. He just cared about people.

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